Not attaching with our adopted baby?

You need to find a lot of patience and stamina. I honestly know that these past two months have been very long and hard. But, you have to understand that it's going to take a lot longer than two months. With both of your children, you and your husband need to be the ONLY ones doing the caretaking. With your daughter, especially, she needs to learn how a family functions. She has lived in an orphanage for two years, has had multiple caretakers and has learned to be charming to get what she wants from whatever adult is in front of her. It's how she's survived. She now needs to learn that you and your husband are the special people called Mom and Dad dedicated to taking care of her. It will take awhile. Don't let other people feed, comfort, bathe, or provide for any of her other major needs except for you and your husband. Your son may actually be having more difficult behavior right now, but I'm actually betting he comes around before your daughter. He's showing preference for a single caretaker, and that actually IS a good sign. He needs that right now, and when he starts to become more secure that his needs are being taken care of, he'll start to slowly but surely let you in. My daughter did not behave this severely for this long, but she preferred Daddy at first. It is hard. When he goes to Daddy to have a need met, Daddy needs to VERBALLY say, while handing him to you, "Mommy is good at feeding you. She will take care of you." Daddy should certainly also keep meeting his needs a lot of the time now, too, but it will help your son to see that his trusted Daddy trusts you and help your son to gain trust in you. With both kids, be affectionate, never raise your voice, show them that you will be there whatever they throw at you. Hang in there. Take care of yourself emotionally and physically. If these problems persist, or at least don't start improving with what you're doing on your own, within a few months, seek professional help.

How to get laid with an older woman?

go to a grovery store, go to a bar, anywhere really. find one and chat her up. its really that simple. its like hitting on a girl your age but she is much older, more expierenced and wiser

Brother emigrated can't cope?

Hi,ok so here is were it begins im 16 recession hit our country due to government, greedy bankers,and people buying expensive houses etc From ireland and today has been the most painful day i could ever have lived so far! my brother is 32 married with two girls left for Australia today and my whole family and sister in laws family are tore apart,he was the best brother anyone could ever have built a house and did everything he could to earn money the most painful part of this experience was him saying goodbye to my father because my dad is in his early 70's threes about a 17 year gap between him and my mom and they had me late in there lives my other sister emigrated also but is only in england which is only an hour and a half away by flight and she visits regularly theres the chance that my dad and brother may never see each other again as my father is old basically it kills a person inside i just didn't believe it would come to such a day like this i have one sister left shes is 30 and is all i have left in my family even tho I've nieces and nephews since my brother left today i just can cope i haven't eaten in days my whole family hasn't and we've no interest in doing anything plus there all going hard on the drink since it happened i love him so much he always was there for me and now that he is gone i can't stop crying i never realised how hard it is to say goodbye to a sibling my two nieces and sister in law.Ive heard of skype and all that but ill never see my brother for at least four years and i cant go over it costs nearly a thousand and my family dont have that kind of money,how do i cope how do my family cope after this?

Should keanu reeves(The matrix) play as jin from tekken?

I think he should because i looked upon the video of him and mr.smith fighting and there was one scene which looked like he can jin.

What is faster a 1996 monte carlo z34 or a 2002 mercury cougar?

A stock 1995 Chevrolet Monte Carlo Z34 can cover an 1/8 of a mile from a standing start in 7.8 seconds and can do the 1/4 mile in 15.5 seconds. The 2002 Mercury cougar can do the 1/8 in about 10.6 seconds and the 1/4 mile in 16.5 seconds so if the cars are in an equal state of tune the win will go to the Z34.

Can the Cougar MRAP take a direct hit from an RPG?

An RPG is candy for an MRAP, they are built to survive an IED, which is often three 155mm Howitzer shells strapped together.

Who do you think would win? Devil Kazuya or Devil Jin?

I am not into video games but i love the Tekken series when i was young. One of my most favourite video game characters is actually Devil( Now known as Devil Kazuya). I was wondering who would win a match between Devil Jin and Devil Kazuya.